Amala Paul’s Emotional Note on Instagram goes Viral !!!

Amala Paul’s emotional note goes viral after controversy and fake news comes to an end. The actress shared the note with her mother on Instagram with a note. The mother, who was in the throes of depression after her father’s death, is now embarking on a new life after bitter experiences.

Relevant parts of Amala’s post

“Words cannot describe the feeling of losing a parent. That’s a huge downfall. The plunge into blinding darkness. Different emotions will haunt us. After my father died of cancer, he went in a new direction. That experience taught me a lot of new things.

We live in a big and beautiful world. From an early age, we are locked into a box with many systems and devices. No one teaches us to love ourselves in the race to win. No one bothers us to step out of the box and soothe our inner self. And in the meantime love affairs. We move from one relationship to the next. We go to the next relationship by searching for that half-missed one in the previous one. People, things, jobs, leisurely pleasures and experiences all change and eventually become nothing. In the meantime, we love ourselves. Loving our negatives and positives ..

Yes, I have decided to move on. Courage along the path that most people do not move …

 

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LOSING A PARENT is a feeling that cannot be described, it’s a MAJOR DOWNFALL and you begin to TRANSCEND into the UNKNOWN DARKNESS and experience varied emotions. Losing my PAPPA to CANCER OPENED a whole new DIMENSION IN MY LIFE. It made me realize so many things. Here’s one such thought! . We live in a big beautiful world. Like the Yin to the Yang, we also live in a world carved out by ‘SOCIETAL NORMS’ that DICTATE our EVERY MOVE and EVERY THOUGHT. We start getting CONDITIONED from a very YOUNG AGE and SHUT OURSELVES through the TRAUMATIC EXPERIENCES and LOCK parts of our INNER-CHILD in to these BOXES. . Unfortunately in the RAT RACE TO THE TOP, we often AREN’T TAUGHT to LOVE OURSELVES. We don’t ALLOW ourselves to OPEN THESE BOXES and HEAL our INNER-CHILD from these TRAUMAS and conditioning. . We shift from RELATIONSHIP after RELATIONSHIP, craving for company and searching for the missing ‘HALF’ in PEOPLE, THINGS, CAREER, SUBSTANCES, MOMENTARY PLEASURES, EXPERIENCES all a mean to ESCAPE OUR TRUE-SELVES only to be left more emptied. . WHEN WILL WE LEARN TO LOVE OURSELVES AS A ‘WHOLE’ AND FULLY EMBRACE THE DARK, LIGHT, GOOD, BAD, HAPPINESS, EMPTINESS, VULNERABILITIES ,PAIN, INSECURITIES, FEARS ? . Yes I have decided to WHOLEHEARTEDLY accept this and COURAGEOUSLY WALK THE PATH LESS TRAVELED.. no more ESCAPE! . MOST IMP – THE WOMEN we grew up looking up to have forgotten that they’re as important as their family. Our MOTHERS have really forgotten to LOVE THEMSELVES, let alone HEALING!! They spend their whole life taking care of their HUSBAND, CHILDREN, FAMILY and NEVER FOR ONCE STOP to do SOMETHING for THEMSELVES. It’s our responsibility to educate and make them understand about loving and nurturing their INNER-SELF BEFORE THEY LOSE THEMSELVES FOREVER!! I almost lost myself and my mom to the verge of DEPRESSION but here we are gearing up to FLY LIKE A PHOENIX in to transformation THROUGH LOVE AND HEALING. . Thanks to my constant support system, my dearest BROTHER for all that he is and especially for making my CHILDHOOD TRAUMATIC EXPERIENCES very entertaining and still continuing to do that ??? Lots of love and healing to all the broken hearts ?

A post shared by Amala Paul ✨ (@amalapaul) on Apr 1, 2020 at 5:31am PDT

Amala says through post that he is staying with his mother. Amala also says that we should embrace our mothers who are living with their own husband and children. “My mother and I are now getting ready to fly like a Phoenix. I am also grateful to my brother who has always supported me. Love is for all who suffer. ‘

Amala’s father Paul Varghese died in January. Amala’s mother is Annie Paul. His brother Abhijit Paul is an actor.